Resetting the locked counter
I’ve been out of chastity for five days. I’m writing this post even though it’s not a situation I’m proud of. I hope it helps convey my feelings.
Why
Monsieur and I have a trust-based approach. I unlock when needed—showering, rinsing the cage, or when it hurts.
This time, I needed to wash the cage more thoroughly and put it in the dishwasher. I had an early train to catch and forgot to put it back on.
Feelings
I feel naked—there’s no soft wrapping around my nub. I also feel bad. I should have been more careful, and ultimately, this has been a failure to meet my personal goals.
Being away from home makes it worse. Not being caged feels like I’m missing a part of home that I carry with me everywhere.
Moving Forward
I’m back home and back in the cage. I still need to sit down with Monsieur, but he’s been supportive throughout.
To avoid this in the future, I’ll switch to a different cage whenever one is being rinsed—I have others.
I’ve reset the counter. Let’s see how it goes.
Big thanks to Visible Restraint for their comments and suggestions.
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